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Friday, December 22, 2006
Shun Away From Problems

The gloomy sky with a slight drizzle made the day seem solemn and grey as if life is a boring cycle that goes on and on. I wanted to skip tennis training and stay home to rest for the day but then, i was 'forced' to go. Otherwise, my friend would be playing without his racket.
Midway through training, i received a message. One of my frens had just split up with her bf and wanted me to have a chat with the guy, checking out if he is coping fine with the separation. Haiz... here i am to help out in another person's business. This is not my affair, but i am dragged in once again. I don't wish to interfere in others' affairs, especially when it has gotta do with a guy-girl relationship.
Third parties will never get to see the picture as clearly as those involved. First hand accounts are understandably more reliable. One can't expect me to solve the problem because i myself am helpless at it.
Friends relate to me their problems. Friends share their joys with me. Friends confide in me their unhappiness. Friends talk to me about how they feel when faced with some undesirable situations. The best i can do is to provide you with a listening ear. Don't expect me to solve problems. Seek a person with better judgment, maturity and experience to help out.
Just a teenager, i am still immature and lack judgment in many areas in life. Unless i had been in the same situation before, i will not be able to help no matter how much i want to. My decisions may lead to more unhappiness and worsen situations. "Too many cooks spoil the broth."
I will be there for anyone who needs me. To be understanding and listen to friends' problems is the most i can do for now. Pardon me for not being able to resolve problems. Until the time when i can see things from a more mature perspective, will i then try to help the best i can. For now, I am only but a teen.
[no worries, i am doing fine. just choked up with emotions. i've gained a learning experience from this situation and i'm truly sorry if i'd hurt any of you. i made a terrible blunder. no point for regrets as things had already occurred. i'd already made clear that i've washed my hands off this problem. it's past and no use pondering over it. life has to get on. now that i know my mistake, i will take more precaution in the future. thanks for being understanding.]


Posted by Lynette at 5:11 PM

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